Nikkita's Book List

June List: aka as Pride Month

This month is dedicated to celebrating the LGBTQ+ community. Pride Month is a month-long celebration of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer people and their history, culture, and contributions to society.

The Invisible Orientation: An Introduction to Asexuality

by Julie Sondra Decker

How to They/Them: A Visual Guide to Nonbinary Pronouns .........

by Stuart Getty

Girl Sex 101: A Queer Pleasure Guide for Women and Their Lovers

by Allison Moon

How to Bottom Without Pain or Stains

by Mike Miller

The Savvy Ally: A Guide for Becoming a Skilled LGBTQ+ Advocate

by Jeannie Gainsburg

May List: It's Masturbation May!

It's one of my favorite months of the year! Masturbation yields many great health benefits such as stress relief, improved quality of sleep, increased sex drive, higher self-esteem, and much more.

Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving

by Betty Dodson, Ph.D.

Sex Yourself: The Woman's Guide to Mastering Masturbation and Achieving Po

by Carlyle Jansen

The Joy of Self-Pleasuring: Why Feel Guilty About Feeling Good?

by Edward L. Rowan, M.D.

Bang!: Masturbation for People of All Genders & Abilities

by Vic Liu

Tickle Your Fancy: A Woman's Guide to Sexual Self-Pleasure

by Sadie Allison

April List: Spring Has Sprung

Now that Spring has sprung, here are some great books centered around restoring or transforming love and relationships.

Passionate Marriage:Keeping Love & Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationship

By David Schnarch, Ph.D.

New Monogamy: Redefining Your Relationship After Infidelity

By Tammy Nelson, Ph.D.

Living an Orgasmic Life: Heal Yourself and Awaken Your Pleasure

By Xanet Pailet

Finding God Through Sex:Awakening the 1 of Spirit Through The Two of Flesh

By David Deida

Not Just Friends:Rebuilding Trust & Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity

By Shirley P. Glass, Ph.D. --- With Jean Coppock Staeheli

March List: Women’s History

Since we are celebrating Women’s History and how amazing women are in general this month, I decided to share some great sexuality books centered around female pleasure.

1. Girl Boner: The Good Girl's Guide to Sexual Empowerment

By August McLaughlin

F*ck Like a Goddess: Heal Yourself. Reclaim Your Voice. Stand in Your Power

By Alexandra Roxo

She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

By Ian Kerner, Ph.D

Slow Sex: The Art and Craft of the Female Orgasm

By Nicole Daedone

The Multi-Orgasmic Woman: How Any Woman Can Experience Ultimate Pleasure

By Mantak Chia & Rachel Carlton Abrams, MD

February List: Black History and Black Excellence

Since we are celebrating Black History and Black Excellence this month, I decided to share some great sexuality books by Black authors.

Pleasure Activism: The Politics of Feeling Good

By Adrienne Maree Brown

Pussy Prayers: Sacred and Sensual Rituals for Wild Women of Color

By Black Girl Bliss

The Sex Lives of African Women: Self-Discovery, Freedom, and Healing

By Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah

Use Your Mouth: Pocket-sized Conversations to Simply Increase 7 Types

of Intimacy in and out of the Bedroom

By Sexologist Shamyra Howard

The Black Goddess Collective Presents: The Path to Pleasure

By Tosh Patterson & Regine Monestime

These books are recommended for entertainment purposes only. We do not guarantee that reading these books will enhance your skills as a Sexpert/Coach/Educator/Party Planner.

Nikkita's Monthly Book Recommendation List